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Meeting minutes

These are the subjects that we have covered in recent meetings. If you are logged into the system you can click on the meeting date to display the full minutes.

Meeting date Meeting subject
17 Nov 2008 GMG Meeting 17th Nov 2008
10 Nov 2008 The return of the Lesbian & Gay Community Centre!
03 Nov 2008 Lack of Hospital Department Treatment Co-ordination
27 Oct 2008 Where is the Common Sense ! Why should courier home delivery be cheaper than hospital pharmacy dispensing of prescriptions?
20 Oct 2008 -
13 Oct 2008 -
06 Oct 2008 Newly Diagnosed Disclosure & The Brazilian Bum Job
29 Sep 2008 Since Diagnosis - What have I done with my Life?
22 Sep 2008 -
15 Sep 2008 Loss of Confidence In Returning to the Workplace after HIV Diagnosis
08 Sep 2008 An Audience with Robert Fieldhouse
01 Sep 2008 'Positive Buddying' at the Group
25 Aug 2008 -
18 Aug 2008 -
04 Aug 2008 USA Travel Law Barring HIV+Ve People Repealed, Bigoted Bishops
28 Jul 2008 Benefits System & Lack of remaining ''Gay +Ve Community''
21 Jul 2008 DRUG TRIALS - Should I agree to be a test patient:? - Side Effects
14 Jul 2008 Loss of Libido & Positive Fatherhood
07 Jul 2008 Home Alone & I HAD TO TELL Him!!! BUT DO YOU?
30 Jun 2008 Homophobic Abuse, Tame HIV Campaigns & Are you 'Out' about your Status?
23 Jun 2008 London GMG Monday 23 June 2008 Newsletter
16 Jun 2008 DLA Review Experiences (Got ur letter?) & Saving Money at your Clinic
09 Jun 2008 KS, Starting Meds., Are Doctors influenced by drug companies?
02 Jun 2008 Ongoing DLA Review Concerns, Dentists & When to Start Medication
26 May 2008 No Meeting - May Bank Holiday
19 May 2008 Stepping Outside and Looking Back - Casman and Positive Thinking
12 May 2008 Disposing of Spare Meds, Checking your prostate & Poppers Burns
05 May 2008 No Meeting Held - May Day Bank Holiday - Chelsea Physic Garden Trip
28 Apr 2008 A fresh start at Grays Inn Road, Group re-opens to new members
21 Apr 2008 DLA Review /Goodbye Soho Walk In Centre Hello THT Offices Kings Cross
14 Apr 2008 Bring Food to Share, Meeting to Move to a Free Meeting Space
07 Apr 2008 Setting up the Gay Men's Group as an Unincorporated Association
31 Mar 2008 THE LAST (PCT funded) SUPPER & Does the past hold the key to the future?
24 Mar 2008 No Meeting Held - Easter Bank Holiday - The Way Forward for the Group
17 Mar 2008 The Funding Hokey Cokey
10 Mar 2008 Distressed & Distraught, Tragedy & Travesty, Anger & Sadness, Determination & Support - The Way Forward Post PCT funding cuts
03 Mar 2008 PCT funding to be pulled from GMG 1st April, MidWeek goes MidMonth
25 Feb 2008 -
18 Feb 2008 Meeting Cancelled - No Facilitation Available
11 Feb 2008 -
04 Feb 2008 The Rise and Fall of CD4 Count and Infrequent Testing
28 Jan 2008 -
21 Jan 2008 Homophobic Abuse in your Neighbourhood & Neuropathy
14 Jan 2008 TELLING NEW PARTNERS ABOUT YOUR STATUS ''I’m HIV +Ve … Me Too!''
07 Jan 2008 -
31 Dec 2007 No Meeting Held - New Years Eve
24 Dec 2007 No Meeting Held - Christmas Eve
17 Dec 2007 Brew!
10 Dec 2007 Starting Medication - Fight or Flight
03 Dec 2007 Time Stands Still in the Dark - the Risks We Take / Call to Action
26 Nov 2007 -
19 Nov 2007 Meeting Cancelled - No facilitation available
12 Nov 2007 Safer Venues – Code of Good Practice for Sex On Premises Venues
05 Nov 2007 Hookups; Gaydar Vs OutintheUK, Integrated Health (Complementary Therapy)
29 Oct 2007 -
22 Oct 2007 In your Wake, Pneumovax Vaccine/Flu Jabs, Stigma in HIV Service Provision
15 Oct 2007 Consequences of playing the STI (Sexually Transmitted Infection) BINGO ...
08 Oct 2007 Safer Venues, US Travel with Meds, Hot Flushes&Low Energy
01 Oct 2007 STI's in Relation to HIV
24 Sep 2007 -
17 Sep 2007 Clinic Doctors Vs GP's & Creating an 'HIV Educated Environment'
10 Sep 2007 Seroconversion & Gay Gorillas
03 Sep 2007 London Poz Guyz
27 Aug 2007 No Meeting held - August Bank Holiday
20 Aug 2007 -
13 Aug 2007 Refused Entry to US with HIV meds & Freedom Passes/Blue Badges
06 Aug 2007 No more tea & sympathy - Experience of a Drug Holiday
30 Jul 2007 UKC melodramatically folds
23 Jul 2007 Vitamin & Mineral Supplementation
16 Jul 2007 DLA Review Concerns, HIV services at GP's? Last issue of Positive Nation
09 Jul 2007 THT Building the Future Consultation discussion
02 Jul 2007 Group arrangements for next 2 wks - THT 'Building the Future'
25 Jun 2007 minutes of gmg meeting 25 june 2007
18 Jun 2007 Disclosure of HIV Status when applying for work
11 Jun 2007 Gay is passe, HIV is the new Politic
04 Jun 2007 -
28 May 2007 No Meeting Held - May Bank Holiday
21 May 2007 HEALTHY RESPECT Campaign, Positive Nation Magazine Facing Closure
14 May 2007 Creating a separate Group Constitution for fundraising for social activities
07 May 2007 No Meeting Held - May Day Bank Holiday
30 Apr 2007 Gay Role Models, Str8 acting: Homophobia Within the Gay Community
23 Apr 2007 By George! A revised Group Agreement
16 Apr 2007 Disclosure: Keeping it in the family?
09 Apr 2007 No Meeting Held - Easter Bank Holiday
02 Apr 2007 Should we tolerate ''ism's'' on the commercial gay scene?
26 Mar 2007 Regular Meeting Monday 26th March
19 Mar 2007 Regular meeting including useful info on up coming events
12 Mar 2007 NAM Forum – The Future of HIV treatment, Ground Rules=Group Agreement
05 Mar 2007 -
26 Feb 2007 When to disclose +ve status for Casual Sex
19 Feb 2007 -
12 Feb 2007 Chosing/Returning to Meds - The Truth about Food : your Pyloric Sphincter
05 Feb 2007 TRIPLE POWER - Lisa Power - THT's Head of Policy returns to talk to the group
29 Jan 2007 -
22 Jan 2007 Is there a link between becoming +Ve and recreational drug use?
15 Jan 2007 Hypnotherapy & Relaxation - HIV Immune response study
08 Jan 2007 Disclosure of HIV+ve status and sexuality and our rights under Employment Law
01 Jan 2007 No Meeting Held - New Year Bank Holiday
25 Dec 2006 No Meeting Held - Christmas Bank Holiday
18 Dec 2006 Sporadic Memory Loss / Golden Showers - 'Amoroli' an alternative cure!
11 Dec 2006 Post Traumatic Stress Disorder - do gay men living with HIV suffer?
04 Dec 2006 Taking time off work to recouperate and cope with the stress of HIV
27 Nov 2006 Tired after a weekend of partying hard – lifestyle or HIV related?
20 Nov 2006 Positive thoughts about being +Ve
13 Nov 2006 Continuity of care and quality time with our HIV consultants
06 Nov 2006 Myelopathy & A Patients Union to protect our rights/Legal Advocacy
30 Oct 2006 K-Pax Vitamin Supplementation & Disclosing to old acquaintances
23 Oct 2006 Flu Jabs & HIV Related Distress and Personal Growth Research
16 Oct 2006 Gareth Davies leads group & What our Dreams Are Made of ...
09 Oct 2006 It's NOT THE FINAL DESTINATION ... but IT'S THE JOURNEY that's IMPORTANT
02 Oct 2006 Are we Discriminating against Deaf +Ve Gay Men? & New Facilitator Search
25 Sep 2006 Detox Diets and Visionary Hospice Care
18 Sep 2006 Lance to Step down as Facilitator
11 Sep 2006 Anxiety, Dentists, Planning Treatment breaks for a holiday and Home Delivery of Medication
04 Sep 2006 ENSURING +Ve FUTURES - UKC's Jill Critchley : Case Management in practice
28 Aug 2006 No Meeting Held - August Bank Holiday
21 Aug 2006 Male Rape and Missing Doses
14 Aug 2006 Pic-nic in Soho Square
07 Aug 2006 Disclosure to Professionals in Medical/Non-Medical Settings
31 Jul 2006 Facilitator off sick
24 Jul 2006 Lipodystrophy & The ill-informed youth : a receptacle for anything that prodded him!
17 Jul 2006 Do you feel more ‘’IN CONTROL’’ or ‘’OUT OF CONTROL’’ since diagnosis?
10 Jul 2006 -
03 Jul 2006 Hot and Sticky .... Disclosure! and EURO Pride
26 Jun 2006 -
19 Jun 2006 -
12 Jun 2006 INSOMNIA - Effavirenz; the drug we all love to hate, and ''ROOTS & SHOOTS''
05 Jun 2006 -
29 May 2006 No Meeting Held - Bank Holiday Monday
22 May 2006 Disclosing HIV status in the workplace - Pro's and Cons
15 May 2006 -
08 May 2006 POWER SESSION – Lisa Power, THT’s Head of Policy talks about Criminal Prosecutions for Transmission of HIV
01 May 2006 No Meeting Held - May Day Bank Holiday
24 Apr 2006 -
17 Apr 2006 No Meeting Held - Easter Bank Holiday
10 Apr 2006 -
03 Apr 2006 Reactions to Disclosure of +Ve Status - Doing your own risk assessment
27 Mar 2006 Do gay men, drugs and alcohol mix? How does being +Ve change our attititude to the Scene.
20 Mar 2006 The 'Real' Sex in the City
13 Mar 2006 Sex in the City: What motivates us to have sex and how does our self worth affect this?
06 Mar 2006 SUPER FLY GUY : The Group's THT sponsored Flyer has been printed and is ready for volunteers to circulate
27 Feb 2006 Please don't let me be Misunderstood ...
20 Feb 2006 Out of Balance - What happens when we stop having sex in our relationships?
13 Feb 2006 Reporting Homophobic Abuse : The LGBT Officer's role in the Metropolitan Police
06 Feb 2006 Does being +Ve Change our Attitude to Risk? How far would you go for 'Mr Right'?
30 Jan 2006 MOTIVATION - Training ourselves to overcome our automatic responses to change : Trust,Intention,Focus & Visualise
23 Jan 2006 Positive Benefits/Negative Side Effects of Living with HIV
16 Jan 2006 DIAGNOSIS, How did you/do you feel? SUPPORT,''HIV is something I only do 2 hours a week on a Monday night''
09 Jan 2006 New Year's Resolutions - a time for refocus, Welcoming Lance as facilitator
02 Jan 2006 No Meeting Held - New Years Bank Holiday
26 Dec 2005 No Meeting Held - Christmas Bank Holiday
19 Dec 2005 No Meeting Held - Post GMG Bromptons Christmas Party Recovery
12 Dec 2005 Disclosure – ''I am HIV positive and it isn’t a problem is it'', Wishing Tony well for the future & Brompton's Christmas Party
05 Dec 2005 THT Counseling Service and PACE Workshops - Living with HIV Abroad : USA & Cuba
28 Nov 2005 Over time everyone has the power to heal themselves - Steps to happiness and having a normal life-span living with HIV
21 Nov 2005 Travelling to the US with a working Visa, HIV tests - Can false positives occur
14 Nov 2005 Doctors baffled as UK HIV man 'cures' himself & When to start medication
07 Nov 2005 Genevieve Clark speaks: THT's Director of Communications (Marketing&Advertising/Press Liaison)
31 Oct 2005 Disclosing HIV in the workplace & Making +Ve Relationships Work
24 Oct 2005 Long term survival issues of living with HIV & The Valley of the Squinting Windows
17 Oct 2005 Starting Meds, New Member referrals, STI Clinics
10 Oct 2005 Flying in Soho through to the end of 2006 & Lympho Granuloma Venereum (LGV) Alert
03 Oct 2005 Flu Jabs, LA trip, Promoting the Group
26 Sep 2005 Tony to stand down as the Group's main facilitator by the New Year
19 Sep 2005 The week that everyone disappeared! & Jamie Farewell
12 Sep 2005 Is the long grind of HIV holding you back? Or are you getting on with life and making the most of your opportunities?
05 Sep 2005 Changes to PCT's (Primary Care Trusts): THT's Executive Director of Service Development & Delivery: Peta Wilkinson visit
29 Aug 2005 No Meeting Held - August Bank Holiday
22 Aug 2005 Away Breaks - Monastical Retreats & Swedish Positive Group Summer Camp
15 Aug 2005 Common themes
08 Aug 2005 A visit from Anthony Clarke - Head of the Gay Mens Counselling Service at THT
01 Aug 2005 20 Things THT are campaigning for over the life of the current Parliament on HIV issues
25 Jul 2005 Confronting HIV Stigma at Work, Drunken Bareback Sex, Osteopathy & GMG Flyer
18 Jul 2005 Diagnosis anniversaries: a time for reflection on the history of HIV
11 Jul 2005 Medical Retirement on Grounds of ill health & Structured Treatment Breaks
04 Jul 2005 HIV naive partners & Oral Sex, Self Esteem & Romance and Which animal do you think you are?
27 Jun 2005 Loss of libido; Loneliness
20 Jun 2005 Missing Words
13 Jun 2005 Bug-Chasers, Gift-Givers and The Law
06 Jun 2005 Drug side effects
23 May 2005 Disclosure of Status to Family and close Friends – A Second Coming Out
16 May 2005 Assertiveness and criminalisation of HIV infection
09 May 2005 Light Toning Exercises with a YMCA fitness instructor & Domestic Violence in Gay Relationships
02 May 2005 No Meeting Held - May Day Bank Holiday
25 Apr 2005 Dodgy HIV awareness campaigns?
18 Apr 2005 Soho Suits
11 Apr 2005 Soho's First Monday Group Meeting - The Groups Vision for the next 6 months
04 Apr 2005 Oh the Shame of it! Asserting ourselves as Positive Gay Men
28 Mar 2005 No Meeting Held - Easter Monday break
21 Mar 2005 What is Reckless Behaviour?
14 Mar 2005 Changing Treatment, Relax with 'Kegels' & Improving Self-Esteem (YMCA Postive Health & Lighthouse West CLAIT Course)
07 Mar 2005 Hospices - Palliative and Respite care for the Terminally ill
28 Feb 2005 Love and Sluts and State of National Health
21 Feb 2005 Pneumonia/Flu Vaccines and TB/HIV ImmigrationTesting
14 Feb 2005 Remembrance of a warm and humorous individual
07 Feb 2005 Red Shoes Sex Addicts
31 Jan 2005 All Change Please! (The group moves from Earl's Court to Soho April 11th onwards.)
24 Jan 2005 Drug Holidays and Mersea Island GMG Spring Break
17 Jan 2005 Nightmares & Spliffs - Safer Sex & Disclosure
10 Jan 2005 PEP and Death of an Old Year:Beginning of a New Year
03 Jan 2005 No Meeting Held - New Year's Day Bank Holiday
27 Dec 2004 No Meeting Held - Christmas Bank Holiday
20 Dec 2004 No Meeting Held - Post GMG Bromptons Christmas Party Recovery
13 Dec 2004 Loneliness, More Addiction and the Red Shoes
06 Dec 2004 Leaving Him, Leaving You - Addiction
29 Nov 2004 Discord and The Dietician
22 Nov 2004 Dick Suckers
15 Nov 2004 The Dolphin Effect - A Textbook Disclosure
08 Nov 2004 Sero-discordant Relationship campaigning : +ve partners/-ve partners
01 Nov 2004 Nasty, Brutish and Short - Survivor Guilt
25 Oct 2004 Sigma Research Speaker, Invition to -Ve Partners for Sero-discordant relationship Nov8th Meeting, Xmas Party Sun19thDec
18 Oct 2004 Interpersonal Relationships - Family reaction to Disclosure
11 Oct 2004 Disclosure and Rejection - Depression
04 Oct 2004 Drug Holidays
27 Sep 2004 The Welfare State Benefits System - there to help, or just window dressing for the middle classes?
20 Sep 2004 Disclosure -Menage a Trois
13 Sep 2004 Swedish Model Wanted - No Timewasters
06 Sep 2004 Reaching Out to Friends and Family for Support, Combating Isolation and forming lasting Friendships
30 Aug 2004 No Meeting Held - August Bank Holiday
23 Aug 2004 THT to become a charity for general sexual health? Peta Wilkinson visits
16 Aug 2004 Sex Drive and Exercise
09 Aug 2004 Worried about medication? Disclosure of HIV status at work? Greenwich Park Picnic and Exec Ops Director speaker from THT
02 Aug 2004 Concerned and Affected by HIV and THT
26 Jul 2004 Sign of the Times - Fellini and Hollywood
19 Jul 2004 Victims of Success
05 Jul 2004 In Denial on ACCEPTANCE - The Second Coming
28 Jun 2004 HIV Drugs - A PATCH in five Years?
21 Jun 2004 Celebrating Future Perfect - Volunteers Wanted
14 Jun 2004 BAREBACKING - Extremely controversial and complicated
07 Jun 2004 Straight-Acting and Straight-Talking. Any Lesbian sightings?
24 May 2004 Criminalised and Lobbyless - Biological GBH
17 May 2004 Anger and Resentment in Threesomes
10 May 2004 Dominatrix in Surgery. Angry.
19 Apr 2004 A Place Called Home/Hospice - Home self-test kits.
12 Apr 2004 No Meeting Held - Easter Bank Holiday Monday
05 Apr 2004 Dorothy's Rainbow Disclosure
29 Mar 2004 DISCRIMINATION at Work - Expert Advice. Sweden Ahoy
22 Mar 2004 Strung Out, Angry and Scared? - Sign this Waiver, bitch.
15 Mar 2004 Time to take your Pills - Guest Speakers
08 Mar 2004 Biological GBH and Responsibility
01 Mar 2004 Psychoanalysis and Brass Monkey's balls ... time for a switch of venue for the Monday Group?
23 Feb 2004 Say hello to new facilitator; Jamie. Website go-live and Easter Trip to Brighton
09 Feb 2004 Managing stress
26 Jan 2004 Do we need a GP; do we need a new venue? Next week we say farewell to our facilitator, Billie
12 Jan 2004 The Dating Game and Travelling abroad with Meds
29 Dec 2003 No meeting held - Christmas break
22 Dec 2003 No meeting held - Christmas break

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